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Husbands, I want you to think about how you would like your wife to show you love. Now, wives think about how you want your husband to show you love. Did you guys think about it?
The next step is easy. Then, ask your spouse to tell you. If you don't have time?
Schedule some time to talk with your spouse so you can tell each other exactly what it is he or she needs to do in order for him or her to feel loved.
By the end of the conversation, husband's you will know what to do to make your wife feel loved. Wives, you will know what to do in order to make your husband feel loved. Then it's just all about time to work. That's simple right fellow wives and you husbands?
Yeah right! Moving on with my Deep Thoughts. 1st of all, I think you should begin with some positive reinforcement. Start out your talk by saying thank you for all of the things your spouse does for you. Both physically and mentally. Isn't it nice to feel you are appreciated?
Then, take turns discussing the things that your spouse does for you that you like. Then, talk about the things that they do for you that need improvement.
Definitely do not be too overly critical. Now is not the time for you to go through a laundry list of all things the spouse does wrong. Be honest about what gifts of time and consideration you would like to receive from them. What are some of the physical gifts that make you the happiest?
This is super important. When the 2 of you guys get to the part where he or she will be talking about criticism or negative stuff? Make sure you keep watch of how your tone is sounding. The volume of your voice. Keep it gentle sounding
Believe me, even if the words that come out of your mouth are not very nice? Your tone, your volume and maybe even your non-verbal actions may not seem as negative as they really are.
Just focus on being gentle in your delivery of words and actions. Believe, me staying gentle helps so much!
The goal is to remain open and honest. I know it may be hard friends but, it's a conversation that you guys have to have for your marriage.
OK, yes, of course, I do know you guys like and I can make it easier for you! Well, Shameless fun guys. I prefer it this way as well. Hence that's why I make them. What on Earth is Samantha talking about? Samantha is talking about putting my ideas in steps?
1.Thank spouse
2.Think about things Your spouse does for you that you like
3. Think about the things your spouse does for you that you don't like and needs improvement.
4. Time to talk to your spouse and tell them exactly what Those things are bred and if you don't have been in one time, schedule another time Because you and your spouse need to be on the same page.
5. Keep your eyes on the Lord and head held high!
6. Remember To work as a team.
7. Pray!
Let's go to The Bible.
TBC...
The next step is easy. Then, ask your spouse to tell you. If you don't have time?
Schedule some time to talk with your spouse so you can tell each other exactly what it is he or she needs to do in order for him or her to feel loved.
By the end of the conversation, husband's you will know what to do to make your wife feel loved. Wives, you will know what to do in order to make your husband feel loved. Then it's just all about time to work. That's simple right fellow wives and you husbands?
Yeah right! Moving on with my Deep Thoughts. 1st of all, I think you should begin with some positive reinforcement. Start out your talk by saying thank you for all of the things your spouse does for you. Both physically and mentally. Isn't it nice to feel you are appreciated?
Then, take turns discussing the things that your spouse does for you that you like. Then, talk about the things that they do for you that need improvement.
Definitely do not be too overly critical. Now is not the time for you to go through a laundry list of all things the spouse does wrong. Be honest about what gifts of time and consideration you would like to receive from them. What are some of the physical gifts that make you the happiest?
This is super important. When the 2 of you guys get to the part where he or she will be talking about criticism or negative stuff? Make sure you keep watch of how your tone is sounding. The volume of your voice. Keep it gentle sounding
Believe me, even if the words that come out of your mouth are not very nice? Your tone, your volume and maybe even your non-verbal actions may not seem as negative as they really are.
Just focus on being gentle in your delivery of words and actions. Believe, me staying gentle helps so much!
The goal is to remain open and honest. I know it may be hard friends but, it's a conversation that you guys have to have for your marriage.
OK, yes, of course, I do know you guys like and I can make it easier for you! Well, Shameless fun guys. I prefer it this way as well. Hence that's why I make them. What on Earth is Samantha talking about? Samantha is talking about putting my ideas in steps?
1.Thank spouse
2.Think about things Your spouse does for you that you like
3. Think about the things your spouse does for you that you don't like and needs improvement.
4. Time to talk to your spouse and tell them exactly what Those things are bred and if you don't have been in one time, schedule another time Because you and your spouse need to be on the same page.
5. Keep your eyes on the Lord and head held high!
6. Remember To work as a team.
7. Pray!
Let's go to The Bible.
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;
Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands, ...
Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ...
A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver. Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear. Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest is a faithful messenger to those who send him; he refreshes the soul of his masters. Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of a gift he does not give. With patience, a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.
Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach And it will be given them
Robyn S.
TBC...
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