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Well, the writing I did yesterday was on ways not to apologize. Thoughts by Gary Chapman, Ms Jennifer Thomas and Mrs. Samantha Tongol-Verdaguer. Of course, those intelligent people are also going to have some thoughts about the right way to apologize.
Let me guess. What? Were you just thinking you did not know there was even a right way one should apologize? To that I say this. Did you by any chance try the thoughts I shared yesterday about ways one should not apologize?
If you did? How did that turn out? If not? Why not and what are you waiting for? Oh, I get it. You guys are waiting for a perfect oppurtunity! Totally makes sense!
Now, before I move forward with the thoughts, let me say this. Please 1st figure out your spouse's apology language. Because my tips might not even be necessary. Nope, they may not even work. You all have common sense. Right? I figured some tips that may be helpful. And, others did too,
That's why I say you have common sense. Because, you guys are going to be the other half of the work. "FIND OUT APOLOGY LANGUAGE!" With all that said let's take a look at.....
What To Say When Apologizing. right or wrong ways to apologize Christian make
-I've noticed calming/brightening the mood as an intro helps a lot.
* Before you start talking begin with what you are thankful for about them
* What you appreciate about them
* Start by saying you love them.
* I did it and I have no excuse!
* I am responsible for the mistake
* It might take us a long time to move on from one I'm done
* I would have a hard time forgiving me if I were you
* I've damaged you are trust
* I was careless, insensitive, thoughtless or rude
* I will do the work to fix my mistake going forward
* My actions were unacceptable
* My heart aches for what I'm
* You didn't deserve that kind of treatment
* You have every right to be upset
* I know that what I did was wrong
* My mistake is part of a pattern that I need to change
* I will rebuild your trust by...
* I have put you in a very difficult position
* I realize that talk is cheap. I know that I need to show you how I will change
* I hope that I haven't waited too long to give you the apology that you deserve
* Be specific when you apologize
* Can you ever forgive me
* Even if you will not ever forgive me, please know I'm so sorry. I love you and I will work everyday so I can change.
- I will try so hard to not repeat my mistakes!
Wow, well 1st of all as I was jotting down the thoughts of the others. They were very interesting. And, I began to play devil's n
advocate. I put myself as the person receiving the apology.
Folks come on there are nevin lane time I can I'm shown are now meaning comments come or rebuttal the Mini kelIman's, and just argued.
I However, all I will say is this. Just Keep your mouth shut while they are apologizing. Who knows, maybe we will be disrupting what they have been rehearsing for so long lol
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TBC.....
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