Missing From Your Marriage

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Fellas, yup I am talking to just the fellas right now. Particularly if you are a husband. Yeah, you. Let's talk. Got a minute?

Oh, you dear husband. Do you not realize what your wife is probably crying out for? Has it ever occurred to you that you may be missing something in your marriage?

Oh you dear husband. Please listen up. I would not be surprised if my reading today would just probably save a marriage. It's in the stats!

So, you hubbie's? You're not alone. Fellow wives? You ladies are not alone either! I get it. We need romance in our marariage. Let me offer some advice and share my Deep Thoughts. 

We're all adults here. Well, I think we are. At least I hope we are. Let's switch over to the subject of sex. You hubby's, listen to this.  "Sex doesn't create love. It is the culmination of love" -TE First off, hubbys do you know how your wife defines love? 

Well, if You don't know? I would 1st of all not move on to future steps until you find that out. For example, let's say her love language has nothing to do with gifts. Husbands? That means you can save your money because if you get her a gift as a way to show her you love her? It really won't mean as much to her as you want. Yup, you probably will still end up hearing her mouth!

Then, I think, no I know! Well, speaking personally that is. That is this. If you hubby's want sex tonight?

Then let the romance begin in the morning. Perhaps, greet your wife as soon as she wakes up, "Good morning beautiful!" Then follow up with a kiss on the forehead.

Does your wife always do the cooking and cleaning? If so? Then, before your wife will even get to the kitchen? Clean it up first. Also, make her scrambled eggs, or have a bowl of her favorite cereal waiting for her on the kitchen table.

Put it in a bowl. Leave the milk for her to pour so her cereal does not get soggy. And, give her a break from having your kids lunches prepared.

Husbands, spread some PBJ on some bread, add chips or fruit and a juice box? Then put everything in the kid's lunchbox. All ready for the kids to bring to school.

If you, Husbands really don't know what you are doing? That's ok. Any good willed wife would really appreciate that you even tried. Yup, major brownie points!

Now, it's time for the 2 of you guys to go to work. Should the romance stop now? No way! Hubby? Do you have internet access at work? Can your wife check her personal email while at work? If so? Then, send her an email telling her you love her. Or, give her a call sometime during the day and just ask how she is doing. Ask her if she would need you to bring something home after work.

Tell her you were just thinking about her. Husbands, its now after work time. I highly suggest that you make a way for you to get home before your wife today. That way you can prepare a nice dinner or order a nice dinner.  but make everything look all pretty by transferring everything on your own dinner plates. Perhaps, light a couple candles. 

Also, don't forget the kids. Perhaps have an already planned play date. Or, Maybe if it's the weekend? Have them spend the weekend at the  grandparents house?

When your wife comes in greet her with something she would like. Perhaps, maybe her favorite candy bar? Or, a dozen red roses!

Then, let the rest of the day and evening lead to what you are hoping for. Who knows? You two may not even be able to finish your dinner because you were too excited to get to the bed.

That's why I high)y suggest maybe having some strawberries and chocolate dip waiting in the bedroom. You know if you're still hungry. Yeah, you may not have eateb much of your dinner. So, at least you have strawberries if you're still hungry. Just sayin...

Proverbs 5:18-19

Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.

1 Corinthians 13:1-13

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; ...

Genesis 2:18 

Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”

Genesis 2:24 

Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Song of Solomon 7:6

How beautiful and pleasant you are, O loved one, with all your 5delights!

1 Peter 3:7

Likewise,husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. 

Proverbs 31:10

An excellent wife

who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.

1 Peter 4:8

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins.

Song of Solomon 6:3

I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine; he grazes among the lilies

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