He Knows Better!

I am a married woman. I know that I've mentioned that numerous times. And, you can take a peak above at the picture of my husband and I at my cousin's wedding. I'm wearing a pretty black dress. Joe was holding on to me so I would not fall. That is the only way I'm able to stand upright. I may look relaxed, but I was fighting so hard to stay up.

That is really the only way l may be able to stand up. Someone would need to hold me. Or, especially if I was by myself the "beast" in me would just grab hold of whatever I see to give me support to sit or stand. That may or may not have been a good thing. I admit there are times that I do welcome Danger. And again, that may or may not be good thing. My My husband says, not a good thing.

As I was saying, I'm a married woman. Married to my spiritual leader. The man that God made for me and vice versa.

When I was in my teens, so many years before I started to date my husband, I am remembering how I used to think when it came to dating other boys. Notice how I use the word boys. They were boys. My husband is the man!

I remember dating this one particular boy, not even for a long time. Maybe a few months. I remember telling this boy I did like him a lot, but I wanted to save myself from participating in the S word until marriage. I'm just saying that me and this boy were not on the same page. I remember me and this boy were just really thinking differently. Thank God that relationship broke up. Then I met my partner for life some years later.

So, yeah that was that.  I was a young girl, that was being drawn in by the beautiful brides in magazines and in Media. So, yeah I wanted that Fairy Tail and happy ending. My mindset was on this particular dude to help me get there.

I was Young. I was stupid at times. Stupid in my thinking. I was in love at age 15, so I thought. Now thinking back it was more infatuation. The Lord allowed me to go through my experiences with other boys so that he can totally prepare me and have me ready when I would meet my partner for life.

God knew better. He always knows better. He could see me with that guy at that moment. But, he also could see me with my husband, in the future. He knew I was going to get that fairy tale happy ending I wanted. It was just going to happen at his time. I needed to be patient. That definitely is not an easy thing. But, God helped.

I don't remember how, but someone knew what was going down in the other guys life now. He has tons of kids. Probably not married. But, I don't know for sure. Nor, do I want to waste my time, searching for answers that I don't need to know about this guy. All I know is that wasn't the guy for me!

What about you guys? Have you asked God if this is the man or woman for me? Are you feeling like God is telling you that is the man or woman for you or that is not the man or woman for you? Do you think you're with the man or the woman you're meant to be with for the rest of your life? Or, you just having fun? I think God prefers we have fun with the person we marry!

Friends, God is ready to give you that person for the ups and downs. He's going to give you the person for the days of doubt..... Trust him! I did and look at me, I ended up getting that fairy tale and very happy ending!

Thank you so much Abel for giving me hot water! I pray you will be encouraged by the writings. Have a great day!

Genesis 2 : 22  NLT

Then the LORD God made a woman from the rib, and he brought her to the man.

Blake Shelton: God Gave Me You