Hard Conversation

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Let me first begin my writing by giving a shout out to our waitress at EL Llano. Joe and I had date night at this Columbian restaurant. Thanks to Marcela for accepting my card. I pray you will be encouraged by the writings.

I feel that it is a very good thing for me that I don't have any hard conversations coming in my direction any time soon. I know I have had to do them before. Or, maybe I didn't end up doing them, bc I chickened out? And chose not to give birth and follow through with that hard conversation with someone.

You know what? If that was the case, it was probably a big mistake. And, no doubt I let it fester in my mind and probably did do something sinful.

Well, that's what happened in my neck of the woods. I'm thinking the Lord put this in my mind to write about today because maybe there's someone out there right now reading this that actually is about to enter into that " hard but very much needed, to have" conversation with another party.

Perhaps God wants you to hear from someone who was in your same predicament at an earlier time. And, God does not want you to repeat my same stupid mistakes. Yeah, oh I could see that being a good reason.

Friends, it was lucky for me one of the "hard con?zversations," I should have had before kind of went down the drain. What I mean is, for some reason any form of contact with this person just went away. Seriously, there is no way to have contact with this person. ever again. This person can reach me if needed. I don't think I'm difficult to find like on Google or get a hold of. On, the other hand, the other person is. It is if this person has disappeared off the face of the Earth.

I'm feeling in my heart that God is telling me to stop trying.I have been exempt from having that hard conversation.  He knows what's best. So, I guess not needing to. have that hard conversation was a good thing. Yay! But? NO BUTS! Just Yay!

So, please don't misunderstand. Because, if you're still going to be seeing this person more than you thought, then I highly suggest having that kind of conversation. And, if you are the one that is at fault for whatever, show them that you are truly sorry. If you are the one who needs to be forgiving someone else, then don't you think you should extend grace and be forgiving?

If you are on the side of needing the forgiveness, then begin praying for forgiveness. And see what happens. Gotta wait. Just sit and wait. What will happen next might just surprise you.

Colossians 4:6

Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person

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