Why does one cheat? I think that the primary reason for the spouses to cheat is because they are missing something. Does that make sense? God created the husband to deeply want respect from their wives. Husbands deserve the respect of wives because that is what God wants. He would like wives to give their husband respect. Respect to their husbands is just one thing out of many things God commands wives to give. I suggest going on Google and checking out husbands' definition of respect.
Now, let's talk about the wives. Being a wife, I will say the same thing wives may cheat because they are missing something they are not getting from their husband. God created wives to want love from their husbands. Yeah, saying I love you is beautiful. However, for some, it is not enough for wives. Again, I suggest going on Google and searching how wives define the meaning of love.
Friends, if you are married and you are not giving your spouse what God is telling you to give, then I think you should change that. I say that because that totally gives Satan ample reason to attack. That, is when Satan will probably put people your way that will give you what you are missing from your spouse. So, please speak to your spouse to and ask what they need from you. Ask what they're missing from you.
I am not saying you will definitely fall astray. However, I am saying that there's a very high chance you will fall astray. And, Satan will tempt you and entice you until the cows come home, so to speak. :-) Does this make sense?
I remember speaking with one of my disability drivers before. Again, I forgot the name. But, we ended up speaking about God. I think it was because I was giving him a church bulletin. Anyway, I remember him saying God would like spouses to be together which totally makes sense.
The evil one wants spouses to spread apart. Again, that totally makes sense. Spouses, think about your marriage bed. When you guys participate in the "S" word you are becoming one and that is what God wants. And, if you are fighting, well, you're getting spread apart. That is what the evil one wants.
For me and my husband, we would prefer not to go to bed angry. However sometimes life just makes you so tired. God understands and he will put you to sleep.
Encouraging thought of the day:
Well, for all you "New Girl" watchers. SPOILER ALERT! Wasn't last nights season finale episode awesome? Nick and Jess are back together!!!
Ephesians 5:25-33 English Standard Version (ESV)
25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Carrie Underwood; Before He Cheats
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