D pushed and walked while I sat in my wheelchair. And, we went down the streets of downtown trying to chase the sun because it was a little bit chilly.
First I gave the card to Tim, just standing on the street. Then we went to the Daily Plaza because there were booths with people selling some International Food. And, some were giving out free samples. :-)
We came across this one booth. It was the same we went to before and I ended up buying more toffee. I was able to personally give a card to Lisa. I pray you will be encouraged by the writing was!
I also want to give a shout out to Eric and Bena. Both of which we met and just started talking to on the street.
Praying that you see people will be encouraged by the writings!
Friday, I was able to give a card to this nice lady at the register of Forever 21. Basically I needed a dress for a wedding, later on that night and I ended up finding one for less than 20 bucks. Praise God!
I reiterate. I am a wife, so I kind of can relate to other fellow wives, minus the whole multiple sclerosis thing. So I will share my deep thoughts.
Sam, and most other wives fall under the category of wanting love, and feeling compassion. Am I right some wives?
When we incorrectly do something, or when we pour out our feelings of maybe sadness, anger, frustration, or confusion, what do most husbands do? They go the other direction. What I mean is, they're more concentrated on the fixing, the how to stop this woman's emotional turmoil. I repeat the fixing and correcting. That turn may result in getting him frustrated and perhaps mad at themselves in their own minds because they find out that they truly cannot help. They actually are not able to fix it.
Ooh, am I hitting someone's or more than someone's nerves? I have some advice. Now, may not work for all the wives, but husbands try doing this. Instead of going the route of being the "fixer," or maybe even thinking about doing the D word try doing these 4 things.
1. Be a good listener. Shut your mouth. I mean that in the nicest way boys :-) Let your wife talk. Look her straight in the eyes, and maybe hold her hand? Show her that you are listening while she talks and make her feel like you really care.
2. Be compassionate in your words and actions.
3. Think good thoughts of what your wife has done for you. You will get an appreciative attitude .
4. Show her love with her love language. That differs with every wife. Maybe your wife has one of her love languages as personal touch. Then she would really find it loving if you give her a hug? Maybe your wife will find it loving if she received or will receive a personal gift. To reiterate, I don't know. Your job is to find that out. I would not be able to tell you that. That is why I suggest finding out her love languages.
Even doing that would seem loving to her. Spending time to find out her definition of love may get you some brownie points! Friends, I'm no scholar. I don't have a Ph.D in the thoughts of husbands and the thoughts of wives. I am just a wife who has a husband and loves and knows God as my personal savior.
Ooh pause break!
Shout out to this awesome lady, and my sister in Christ, Ruth! Ruth is a nice woman that I met at the wedding I went to yesterday. What a blessing and very
encouraging story of how we met! Ruth, thank you so much for offering to cut up my food! It's always great to meet someone who knows somebody with MS and knows what may be there struggles. Ruth, I pray that you will be encouraged with my writings and the other links on the card! Thank you and have a wonderful day!
I also find it pretty cool that the Lord speaks to my heart with all these deep thoughts. He put them in my mind so that I have them to share with all you people and of course myself. Isn't it amazing? I totally think it is. I stand In awe, well in my case I sit in awe of my Lord. I marvel just to know that he loves me so much! I really hope this writing for the day helped other people out! If you can, please share some words ofcencouragement? Did you find the writing for today helpful? I hope so!
Ephesians 4:32 NIV
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
First I gave the card to Tim, just standing on the street. Then we went to the Daily Plaza because there were booths with people selling some International Food. And, some were giving out free samples. :-)
We came across this one booth. It was the same we went to before and I ended up buying more toffee. I was able to personally give a card to Lisa. I pray you will be encouraged by the writing was!
I also want to give a shout out to Eric and Bena. Both of which we met and just started talking to on the street.
Praying that you see people will be encouraged by the writings!
Friday, I was able to give a card to this nice lady at the register of Forever 21. Basically I needed a dress for a wedding, later on that night and I ended up finding one for less than 20 bucks. Praise God!
I reiterate. I am a wife, so I kind of can relate to other fellow wives, minus the whole multiple sclerosis thing. So I will share my deep thoughts.
Sam, and most other wives fall under the category of wanting love, and feeling compassion. Am I right some wives?
When we incorrectly do something, or when we pour out our feelings of maybe sadness, anger, frustration, or confusion, what do most husbands do? They go the other direction. What I mean is, they're more concentrated on the fixing, the how to stop this woman's emotional turmoil. I repeat the fixing and correcting. That turn may result in getting him frustrated and perhaps mad at themselves in their own minds because they find out that they truly cannot help. They actually are not able to fix it.
Ooh, am I hitting someone's or more than someone's nerves? I have some advice. Now, may not work for all the wives, but husbands try doing this. Instead of going the route of being the "fixer," or maybe even thinking about doing the D word try doing these 4 things.
1. Be a good listener. Shut your mouth. I mean that in the nicest way boys :-) Let your wife talk. Look her straight in the eyes, and maybe hold her hand? Show her that you are listening while she talks and make her feel like you really care.
2. Be compassionate in your words and actions.
3. Think good thoughts of what your wife has done for you. You will get an appreciative attitude .
4. Show her love with her love language. That differs with every wife. Maybe your wife has one of her love languages as personal touch. Then she would really find it loving if you give her a hug? Maybe your wife will find it loving if she received or will receive a personal gift. To reiterate, I don't know. Your job is to find that out. I would not be able to tell you that. That is why I suggest finding out her love languages.
Even doing that would seem loving to her. Spending time to find out her definition of love may get you some brownie points! Friends, I'm no scholar. I don't have a Ph.D in the thoughts of husbands and the thoughts of wives. I am just a wife who has a husband and loves and knows God as my personal savior.
Ooh pause break!
Shout out to this awesome lady, and my sister in Christ, Ruth! Ruth is a nice woman that I met at the wedding I went to yesterday. What a blessing and very
encouraging story of how we met! Ruth, thank you so much for offering to cut up my food! It's always great to meet someone who knows somebody with MS and knows what may be there struggles. Ruth, I pray that you will be encouraged with my writings and the other links on the card! Thank you and have a wonderful day!
I also find it pretty cool that the Lord speaks to my heart with all these deep thoughts. He put them in my mind so that I have them to share with all you people and of course myself. Isn't it amazing? I totally think it is. I stand In awe, well in my case I sit in awe of my Lord. I marvel just to know that he loves me so much! I really hope this writing for the day helped other people out! If you can, please share some words ofcencouragement? Did you find the writing for today helpful? I hope so!
Ephesians 4:32 NIV
Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
John Waller: Marriage Prayer
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